One of the highlights of this Summer for me is the time ive spent with D doing all of the fun and interesting things that i probably wouldn't have done without him. I think perhaps my favourite thing (or one of them) about motherhood is being able to share my passions with someone who is just as fascinated, amazed and easily pleased as me, and to be able to express my joy at such things freely without worrying that he will think im odd or silly. Nobody else will organise bookcases (every couple of months), rummage through button tins, pose for photographs a million times over, set up little still life displays or get up close with bugs with me, but D does, and will, and enjoys just as much as me, all of those things. There is, for now, unconditional acceptance of all of my habits and hobbies, and that gives me such a wonderful feeling, inspiring me to fulfill more of my dreams and make me feel free and at ease with who i am.
So this summer, we have been totally enthralled by the creatures we have come across in our garden and i have seen bugs up close like never before...
The raspberry bush was covered with aphids and black fly, all of them in one still, huddled group.
We have seen plenty of ladybirds and they are still visiting our garden right now. We saw them when they were new to the world and not yet resembling their adult form...
And we noticed them stuck to leaves undergoing transformation to the next stage of their development...
And of course we have seen, held and admired them in their familiar red polka dot jackets...
We followed and videoed bumble bees, and let them walk across our fingers and up our arms...
And were amazed and delighted to hear and then catch a grasshopper with only one jumping leg, who stayed with us for ages as we passed him from finger to hand to log and then back into the grass for him to hop once more...
There were tiny caterpillars in our nasturtiums and naughty ones in our apples, but mostly these small but squishy bright green ones...
So many snails with Gods artistry perfectly displayed on each shell, so many variations of this humble mollusc within my small outdoor space, we cant get enough of them and the thought of salt or the stamp of a boot horrifies me!...
We saw this beautiful green and pink spider (and my mum told me she saw one just the day before i took these photos too) which i have never seen before. It was on our compost bin so i scooped it onto a fallen leaf from our cherry tree and marvelled at their likeness to each other. Its called an enoplognatha ovata, and just look at the tiny hairs on the leaf...
Another new to me bug is the shield bug, which i have grown to love oh so much! They come in different colours and are so hardy and prehistoric looking, they are something which i never would have thought we would have in England...
We collect worms at some point every week, some we feed to our brave robin(s) and others we put back after we have finished taking them on the swing or pushing them around the garden on the bicycle. Our compost bin must be home to hundreds of them...
And then, as always, the common spider, a familiar sight, a slight frustration when they make my washing line their home and i have to avoid damaging their webs, but still a definite source of interest for D...
And we haven't done discovering yet insha'Allah. There is still so much left to distract us from the TV, the computer and from toy traffic jams or dancing in circles to Aloe Blacc. I defy you to not enjoy bug hunting!